Ring etiquette · Meaning

Promise ring vs engagement ring

A promise ring and an engagement ring both symbolize commitment, but they mean different things and are usually very different in cost and design.

Promise ring vs engagement ring

Meaning

A promise ring says 'I am committed to you' and may come years before any proposal. An engagement ring is given with a proposal of marriage.

Which finger

Promise rings are often worn on the ring finger of the right hand, or the left hand before engagement. Engagement rings are traditionally worn on the left ring finger in the US.

Cost and style

Promise rings are typically simple bands or small stones. Engagement rings usually feature a center diamond and cost considerably more.

Moving from one to the other

Many couples keep the promise ring and move it to the right hand, or stack it, once the engagement ring arrives.

Common questions

Is a promise ring the same as an engagement ring?

No. A promise ring is a pledge of commitment; an engagement ring marks an intention to marry.

How much should a promise ring cost?

Promise rings are usually modest — often a small fraction of an engagement ring budget.

Can a promise ring be used as an engagement ring?

Yes, if both people agree. What matters is the meaning you give it.

Who gives a promise ring?

Anyone in a committed relationship. Couples sometimes exchange them with each other.